Photo: The Knot
Happy Friday everyone! I originally had a different post ready to go for today, but given this week’s series of ups and downs, I didn’t think it was appropriate for where we are today. So bare with me….
For me this week was filled with the death of my in-law’s family dog, Maya, the emotional rollercoaster of a never-ending real estate purchase (8 months and going strong), the complications and scary situations that mother nature brings with pregnancy, and ultimately the unexpected early arrival of my new, healthy nephew, Trey Parker Thomas, last night.
Why am I telling you all this? Well, because while this week may not have been an easy one, it reminds me that at the end of the day I still have my loving husband (Mike) and awesome dog (Kana, below) and a roof, even if it’s temporary, over my head, and my business. So I’m thankful. And I’m thankful for everyone in my life and for all of the great people I’ve met in this awesome industry. Not everyone is so lucky.
There are ways we can all give back. And there are certainly ways to incorporate special elements into weddings and events. I know this isn’t a profound idea, but if you’re a bride, why not lose the favor idea and instead funnel that money into a foundation that really speaks to you and your groom? Favors generally get chucked to the side anyway. Think about using that money for something truly meaningful. Or maybe you just want to honor an issue that’s close to your heart. If you’re using pink as one of your colors, why not tie off bouquets or escort cards with pink ribbon, if breast cancer awareness is something that speaks to you. It’s not a donation, but it’s symbolic. Remember, your wedding is a happy day, so keep it upbeat.
If you’re a vendor, how can you help your community? This post was inspired by Cherin Szul’s amazing runner (ab0ve) she created for Paws for a Cure, which is raising money for the Susan G. Komen Foundation. How adorable is this? Last year I was fortunate enough to help plan the final fundraising gala for “Life After the Storm” here in Connecticut and it felt great.
After a long babbling post, I hope you’ll look around and see one opportunity to reach out and help. It doesn’t have to be big. It doesn’t have to be in the spotlight. It doesn’t have to involve money. When it’s all said and done, be thankful for what you have.
[Four surgeries later, Kana is thankful she has her hair back and can run again! So freakin' cute!]
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Aw Kana is such a cutie! Good luck with the house and congratulations on your new nephew!
Thanks so much, Lindsey, for featuring my work in your fabulous blog! And best of all, thanks for reminding people to give back. :)
Cutie Kana, hubby, healthy nephew, biz and roof over your head is all good stuff!!! (even if it’s not the right roof…that will happen!:) Me too…sick dog but lots to be thankful for! :) Stayin positive!!:) dd
What a thoughtful post. You have a wonderful outlook on life and I agree with your suggestion of giving back; especially in this uncertain economic time. Non-profits need a lot of help!